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How You Can Use Simple NLP Language Hacks to Enhance Your Law of Attraction

More words to empower you!

More words to empower you!

You may be asking yourself, “what is NLP and how can I use it to enhance the law of attraction?” Well, I have stellar news for you. NLP is easy to use and rapidly tips the law of attraction scale in your favor. In truth, the law of attraction is a powerful force and is always in effect. Right at this moment, you attracting into your life, exactly what you believe in your subconscious mind. The problem is that thanks to years of passive conditioning and entrainment of your subconscious mind, most of what is in there is not aligned with your higher self and what you REALY want in your life.

This is where NLP (nuero-linguistic programing) comes into play. Just as easily as your subconscious programming was developed though no creative control of your own (all of these years!) it can be reprogrammed according to your own choosing.

Now how would you like to move from thinking and struggling to knowing and effortless flowing through life? The reality is that we were designed to do the latter. It’s just that years and years of adopting the mindsets, belief models and habits of those around us have created dis-empowering belief models and subconscious beliefs that do not serve us.

Problem talk creates problems, solution talk creates solutions.
— Steve de Shazer

There are literally hundreds of NLP strategies that you can easily adopt into your daily habits that will change your belief models and in turn, what you are attracting into your life. One of my favorites is the very simple act of adopting language hacks. The words you use are sending strong messages into the programming of your subconscious mind. Unfortunately, much of the vocabulary that we adopt is actually what is known as dis-empowering language. For example, imagine how your own attitude about what you are about to do changes when you switch from  using the phrase "have to" to "get to" or even "want to"? Now notice how in that last sentence I did not say "if" I said "when"- see what I'm doing here? When you consciously switch your choices in words, you make great strides in shifting the programing of your belief models and the subconscious mind.

Here’s a few examples:

If you say: I’m trying to get along better with my spouse.  

Why this is poor programing for your Law of Attraction: this tells your subconscious mind that your current state is not getting along well with your spouse and also that while an effort has been made there is no expectation of success- just trying, leaves lots of room for attempting to justify why this is not happening. What you focus on, you attract.

Better: I am getting along better with my spouse (tells your subconscious mind that you are making headway in attaining a better relationship, puts the attainment of the goal in the present, more affirmative)

If you say: “I hope everything works out”

Why this is poor programing for your Law of Attraction: Telling your subconscious mind that luck, hope, wishful thinking is your only small chance- this one is right up there with maybe… which usually means no. hope is on the edge of the lower vibrating emotion of fear and based in the law of resistance.

Better:  “ I have faith that everything is working out as it should” (power statement! Faith is a much higher vibrating emotion. With this statement you have given yourself permission to let go of worry and fear and opened up to an infinite number of possible positive solutions and outcomes ).

How to Do it

When you become more consciously aware of your word choices you can then change them as well. Its all about becoming consciously aware of how deffective your own habitual speech pattern is and choosing to swap out words until it becomes automatice (your new way of thinking- yay!) After you do this several times, the new word choice becomes automatic and subconscious. you have then successfully reprogrammed yourself for that word or phrase and begun shifting your own mindset/belief model and hence what you are attracting to yourself-  go you!

Each time you speak (or think of what you are going to say) get in the habit of thinking about what message each word choice is sending to your subconscious mind. This is a part of your programming language. When you make shifts in the programming language you make shifts in your belief models which then effect what you experience and attract in life.

There is a more positive alternative for almost every word. Here are some ideas to get you started.

There is a more positive alternative for almost every word. Here are some ideas to get you started.

Imagine what type of life experiences show up for a person who constantly uses the word never?

For example, imagine what type of life experiences show up for a person who constantly uses the word never? "things never work out for me" "I never get what I want". Ouch... its painful to even write it. Now imagine what type of life experiences show up for someone who says things like "My life is so interesting and full of great surprises" or " The universe has far better plans for me than I could ever make for myself". That last one is practically my mantra but I think you get my point. Language hacks are easy and fun, what words can you start shifting today?


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Do Anything Better with the Proven NLP Technique of Modeling

Do anything better with NLP modeling

Do anything better with NLP modeling

One of the best things about being a Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) practitioner is the constant growth and learning that I do myself using these techniques. One of my favorite techniques is modeling because it is so easy and customizable to any pursuit. Modeling is not new to you at all, you’ve been doing it since you were a child. It is one of the major behavioral learning skills that we all used as small children to develop our first abilities and still use today to subconsciously adopt our behaviors, skills, mindsets etc. from those around us (whether we realize it or not). However now you can take this automatic process that happens daily and use it with creative and laser focus to become better at anything.

Here’s How it Works:

You start with something you would like to be better at. Maybe it’s your marriage, your golf swing, your parenting, your ability to network- pick anything! Then you find someone who is truly stellar at what you would like to get better at. You often hear me saying that anything is possible and that is true. The fact is that ANY person committed to mastering the model can do so — provided there aren’t any biological limitations that make it impossible.

You simply observe the chosen “outstanding performer” repeatedly and in close detail. You look for what and how they do everything related to what you are looking to get better at and then model those actions, behaviors, word choices, perspectives, everything!

I’ll give you a personal example and it is in fact the reason I am writing this today. Last week, my hairdresser, Lisa was working her magic on my hair. It always looks like threads of silk when she blows it out and a hippie squirrel when I do. At first I thought it might be the shampoo, hairdryer, brush? Something I did not have perhaps? But then I decided to just use the modeling technique and learn to nail down this fabulous blow out ability (that sounds just a little bit wrong doesn’t it;-).

I watched very closely at each step. The way she sectioned it with a clip and blew it in sections. The amount of hair pulled onto the brush, the angle and direction of  the dryer. The amount of time she held the brush at each section and how many times she pulled it through again before pulling the dryer away and letting that section fall.  I was paying very close attention. Today I had an opportunity to put what I had observed to practice with my standard arsenal of products and tools at home. I simply modeled what I had seen in great detail. The results? Absolutely fabulous! I’m truly delighted and all I had to do was use the free and highly practical technique of modeling. Anyone can do it with any type of improvement goal- including you!



Opiates, Life, Death, Change & Codiebase

Codie,and the family, two days before his passing

Codie,and the family, two days before his passing

I used to be so grateful that I was simply fascinated by life. Because a fascination with life brings a new dynamic to every joy, challenge, encounter, relationship and experience in life. But on January 9th, 2018 that all changed. My son, Codie William Reeves passed away from an opiate/fentanyl overdose.  It’s a long and interesting story but to make a long story shortish, I am now fascinated by more than ever before. I am fascinated by all of consciousness. When someone passes away, (if you look) you will see all things, including past & current experiences, in whole new light. In my case I gained an even deeper understanding of love, the interconnectedness of all things and transcendence of consciousness through the passing of my son from this plane.  I also gained a macabre fascination with the opiate  epidemic, pharmaceutical holocaust, or whatever you want to call this shit show that is going on in plain sight.  

Let me back up for just a moment before moving forward. My time here with Codie has taught me so much. Codie taught me about love, endurance, connection, and the absolute beauty and vitality of the human spirit. I also learned things I wish no one would ever have to learn and that is about the devastating nature of the opiate epidemic that we are all facing right now. Since his death, so many people, of all types and walks of life, have reached out to me to share their stories. The opiate epidemic does not discriminate and has few survivors.  Even the “surviving” friends and family member's lives have been touched and forever changed. No one deserves this, not the victims who become addicted, not their friends and families who struggle right alongside them and not society as a whole, that loses out in countless ways. Check out this staggering statistic: Expert statisticians expect that opiate deaths will claim 500,000 people in the US, in the next decade.  In honor of Codie and every single solitary human being on this planet,  I am bringing my own insights, experiences and alternative approach to thriving, to the fight against the opiate epidemic in the form of Codiebase.com  

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I have just begun to set up the structure of the site. I will add to it extensively over the next two months and in an ongoing fashion as I stay on top of the ever evolving alternative approaches to preventing and treating opiate use & addiction.

Please visit Codiebase.com and share it with your friends. I am looking for as many resources and insights as possible. I am looking for resources, ideas and also the real stories of those who have prevented or overcome addiction. All input is welcome, please contact me with yours and please share!



March 9th, 2018

Codie would have been 25 years old today!


Codie would have been 25 years old today! A river begins its life at its source, in the uplands, it twists and turns, carving out its path until it finally stretches out into the ocean. A human life is much the same.  In the greater system of things, all water is constantly cycling through the planet and the atmosphere, remaining, in some shape or form, within that same system. Likewise, regardless of form (be it a memory, consciousness, spirituality, love, a catalyst for change, or however you want to think of it) a life lived carves a path, leaves a trace and endures.  



How to Create Your Vision

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There is no substitute for vision!

Yes, its true that I have learned and always say "The Universe has far better plans for me than I could have ever made for myself. That is faith. But faith without work is dead. While our journey can take us to far more interesting places than we could have ever imagined, we must also understand and engage the creative power that we all have within us. When you create a vision for yourself you are putting your ore in the water and steering the boat toward the direction you would like to go in. We all have the freewill to do this but many folks do not. They simply go round and round, wondering why they have not made more progress or continue to experience the same struggles in life.  

Crafting your vision can be done in many ways:

You can visualize it, creating a movie style vision in your mind.

You can write it out in any form that speaks to you.

You can draw pictures or simply make a vision board.

You can talk about it with your friends and family.

Know This: What you continue to imagine for yourself and tell yourself is seeding the data in your subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind is a highly efficient and functioning machine. You will be moved toward that which you visualize for yourself. More than that, you will find that which you have visualized moving quickly toward you! 

How do you know this is true? Well don't take my word for it, simply find out for yourself. Start visualizing and creating your own vision today. Do it daily and notice how quickly things come to fruition. Follow me on Facebook and be sure to check back and let me know how your vision is creating your reality!



Learn How to Turn Back the Clock Naturally

Imagine yourself talking to someone 10 years from now that explains how they are using the new science of epigenetics to transform their body and you have to laugh because you have leveraging this science based technique for years. Imagine people taking training to shift their own mindsets about ageing (because again, the science clearly shows this has a huge impact) and you have already shifted your own.

Well after almost a year in the making, I am beyond delighted to share with you my new course on the Daily Om platform. I spent a  long time researching the revolutionary concepts in this course and developing a super easy format to enable you to incorporate them into your life.

What I discovered, and am excited to share with you, are the shockingly easy ways for you to transform your health, vitality and youthfulness. Come with an open mind because while many of the topics "make total sense" once someone points them out to you, there are several techniques in here that are well ahead of their time.

It is such a huge honor to be joining the Daily Om family, especially with a course like this that is so ahead if its time! They have a flexible pay what you can model- enroll in Turn Back the Clock Naturally today!

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Intuition: You Already Know What to Do


You already know what to do- you do! The truth is that for any question, issues, decision, at any moment, you know in your heart whether you want to zig or to zag. Its just that we are not taught to trust, follow and be ok with our own intuition. We think, strategize and play it “safe” by neither zigging nor zagging but instead taking that slow boring path straight down the middle. Why? Because everyone else is doing it. Everything about how we are all raised and conditioned by each other teaches us to follow the crowd and to look for solutions from the outside in. Is it any wonder we are frustrated and bored? Any wonder the “outside in” solutions just lead to more of a void and bewilderment?


You already know what to do. Time to start feeling, using and trusting your own intuition and see where that takes you. You’re gonna take a few dead ends and have some unexpected experiences. That makes life interesting! That is where we feel alive. That is where we are truly present in the moment. That is where we enhance our own self-love. That is where we learn and grow. We all naturally crave growth in life (in so many more meaningful and interesting ways than we tend to limit ourselves to). When we are not growing, we are dying. Is life really just supposed to be a slow painful death of consciousness where we technically keep our bodies alive and get pats on the back for paying our bills and moving up the corporate ladder? Could there be more to it? Could we discover what more there is by listening to our intuition instead of taking the well-traveled path?

Well you’ll never know unless you try it out right? What have you got to lose? If you jump off the train that everyone else is running to catch every once in a while it’s no big deal. You know there is another one coming down the line, right behind that one anyway. 




3 Easy Ways to Enhance Your Law of Attraction with Gratitude

I’m currently creating a mini course on what I consider to be the actual secret to the law of attraction. It’s fascinating, I can’t wait to share it with you! For now though let’s dip our toes into the water by focusing on gratitude. When most people think of the law of attraction, their thoughts turn toward the question of  what good things  they can attract to themselves and how. If you have taken my courses Create a Law of Attraction Vision Board That Manifests Your Dreams, then you already know the pitfalls of this approach.

The basic premise of the law of attraction is that like energy attracts like energy. So we attract into our lives the people, circumstances, events and so on that most resonate with our deepest subconscious beliefs.  When your focus is on what you don’t have you look to the law of attraction to help fill the void.  So really your focus (and dominant underlying belief) is based on  mindset of  lack. A lifetime of conditioning to think this way has made it second nature for most people. However, it’s super easy to shift your thinking and your mindset to one of abundance by focusing on gratitude. 

Here are 3 Easy ways to engage the power of gratitude in your daily life

Daily Law of Attraction Guided Audio

Daily Law of Attraction Guided Audio

1.       Share gratitude on the hour. How many times a day do you complain? Think about even the smallest comments and complaints that you make all throughout the day. Again this is second nature to us, we learn by being immersed in a society where everyone is doing it. To turn that around and shift your mindset, thoughts and conversational habits to one of gratitude it just takes a little conscious effort and then it soon becomes automatic of subconscious.   To do that, stop once during each and every hour that you are awake and share gratitude. Notice something (however small) that you are grateful for and share it with someone. Perhaps you will reach out thank someone for something they have said or done, in person or via email, text etc.). Or maybe you will just let someone know about something or someone in your life that you are grateful for (which also teaches them by example to be more grateful).

2.       Write a daily gratitude list. Toward the end of each day make a quick list o a half dozen or so things that you are grateful for from your day. This has several benefits, it helps you to build your neural network of positivity in two ways. First, it forces you to look deeper at even the smallest of things to be grateful for which enhances your positive mindset. The process of writing (rather than just thinking or saying) also creates a more dynamic and well anchored network of positivity as well.

3.       Breathe in Thank You breathes.  Stop frequently to really notice all that there is  around you to be grateful for. Take in a deep breath and just say in your mind “thank You” as you notice something around you that you are grateful for. That might be the warm sunshine on your shoulders, the  wonderful smell from a nearby bakery wafting through the air, the smile on your child’s face as they lean over to lace up their shoes, the delicious toasted everything bagel you are about to enjoy, the extra 5 minutes in your hot shower.. the list goes on and on!


A short daily practice of gratitude, visualization and meditation does wonders for updating your mindset and activating the law of attraction in a positive way.   It’s super powerful, fun, uplifting, and requires practically no effort at all. My mini course, Create a Law of Attraction Mindset includes a 15 minute guided audio program that walks you through this series each day in just 15 minutes! 



Kintsugi and Relationship Building


Kintsugi is the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery by filling the cracks with gold. Through this process, the repair and history become more valuable than disguising the breakage. Relationships work much in this same way. We become closer and more bonded through the process of learning to feel compassion, love and heal each other than from pretending to be perfect and not have any problems.  We literally create something as priceless as gold and are practicing the truest art-form (life as art!) when we  invest in each other in this way. We each become more beautiful for the process as we grow not alone, but together.

Always love!



The Science Behind the Law of Attraction

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Did you know that dedicating just 15 minutes a day to using the Law of Attraction through affirmations or creative visualizations can help you to change your mindset and your life?

While the law of attraction is considered a metaphysical concept, research in psychology, neuroscience, philosophy and evolutionary biology can all be used to add extra dimensions to our understanding of how the Law of Attraction works. For example: Scientists working at the Wellcome Trust Centre for Neuroimaging at the Institute of Neurology in London have discovered that people who visualize a better future are more likely to be able to bring that future into existence. Research in psychology has found that people who consistently tell themselves that they can meet a goal are more likely to secure a positive outcome. The field of neuroscience shows us that thanks to mirror neurons, we tend to reflect behavior that we observe. Changing your own mindset and actions prompts change in the way others behave toward you. Genetic research shows that limiting beliefs are inherited. For example an original fear of something is rooted in a negative response to a stimuli, however that fear (without the presence of the stimuli) is then passed down to the next generation.  

The law of attraction states that what you think about constantly you attract. The good news is that changing your thinking habits and your mindset is relatively easy and you can take the steps to do that in as little as 15 minutes a day.  Imagine how your life will unfold when you change your foundational mindset on  the areas that you struggle with and constantly seem just out of reach. Think about the people that you know who excel in that area and you tell yourself “it just comes to them naturally”. Well you are right, excelling is more effortless and automatic when you prime your mindset for success in that area. Once you can see it in your mind, you will hold it in your hands! Seeing it in your mind is not a deep dark mystery, it’s just a matter of priming your own belief system which you will learn to do in part 1 of  Create a Law of Attraction Mindset and daily re-enforcement, which part two walks you through step by step in the short, daily guided audio that only takes 15 minutes a day. I guarantee you that it will soon become your favorite 15 minutes of the day as you realize the power of your own vision!  

Enroll today in the Create a Law of Attraction Mindset: Daily Guided Audio Program to start your journey toward success.



Finding Your Center: As Above, So Below, As Within, So Without

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Sometimes you have to look outward to find your center. We are reflections of how we see others and the world around us. The mindset models that guide our thoughts, words and interactions with others  also creates the framework for how we view ourselves. It’s not a straight linear path, as we accept and connect with others we move closer to our own center.

Are you ready to unlock your own alpha brainwaves and dramatically transform your life? Enroll today in Easily Unlock the Power of Alpha Brainwaves today!